O.o
Black Women Disproportionately @ Risk For Homicide
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ellaonetsy said:
Then once again it goes back to her coddling him. You cannot expect a teen to suddenly develop life skills such as cleaning up after themselves if they haven't been instilled early.
If he truthfully just changed over night at 19 then that is most likely due to mental health issues. Once again the mother did not seek professional help and instead of being a responsible parent gave him an ultimatum which would abandon her responsibilities.
Either way SHE FAILED AS A PARENT.
He's either pure evil
Or
He could have had a mental illness that doesn't show itself until 18 or 19 mostly in males like schizophrenia
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O.o said:
He's either pure evil
Or
He could have had a mental illness that doesn't show itself until 18 or 19 mostly in males like schizophrenia
In both scenarios as a mother you should know.
How can you not notice a massive shift in personality? How does evicting him resolve the issue?
and if he was born evil why send him to military school? How does that resolve the issue?
It comes down to not being an active parent and doing quick fixes to avoid the problem. She coddled him instead of putting in the work and parenting this is the result.
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Victoria Baker Harber said:
These men are bums and liars and are entitled. They take the things their parents have done for granted. This reminds me of the Chandler Handerson case where that loser brutally murdered his parents because they found out about him lying about jobs/university completion or that other loser who killed his parents and brother because they demanded he stop robbing them of family money on an e-model and demanded he go back to nursing or move out. Entitled wastes of spaces.
Omg my first thought went to that creep who sent money to that e model posing as a multimillionaire.
I actually found out a guy I grew up with got killed recently. Now had it been anyone else I would’ve felt bad. My mom said she felt for his mom who apparently was a nice woman but this guy was a LOSER!!! He accidentally killed his friend when he was 16. Now we all did dumb things as teens. Long story short he was pulling his friend on a skateboard behind his car and the kid let go and flew off and hit a tree. Somewhere after then his grandparents died and left him a nice chunk of money for college and he spent it all buying and selling drugs and pumping out his car. He was co*cky rude and user. Fast forward to now and he became someone constantly charging on his credit card and then doing fraudulent chargebacks to always get his money back and keep the product. He eventually died by getting hit by a car. Some people felt bad but I didn’t. He was a pure parasite and added nothing to the world
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Jasmine Bay said:
My brother is the same. My mom and dad coddled him because he was a 'black man who got a college degree". You know how black men are worshipped for doing the bare minimum that other races of men consider entry level. Meanwhile, my brother doesn't respect boundaries. He doesn't care about misogynoir. He doesn't even think misogyny exists. He calls women who are spoiled by men "bums" because our mom would criticize her sister in law that's a stay at home mom.
My mom even told me "cooking is a woman's job. Men don't need to cook or clean when a woman is in the house". LSA doesn't like to discuss boy moms because most of them are already heading towards that direction. They call women who don't worship men "ugly bitter femcels who can't get men". Saying "I'd rather have male friends than female friends". But act surprised when the males/sons they worship turn on them.
If anything, beautiful women who value our health and serenity don't want toxic male energy in our lives. Male energy isn't valuable unless the man is stable in every aspect.
All of this. Black men are often rewarded for the things were expected to do. My mother often excused my brothers haughty behavior as him just being quiet and his inability to maintain friendships as other boys being jealous of him.
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